Tips for sharing a nanny with your co-parent

On Behalf of | May 9, 2023 | Child Custody

Going through a divorce can be a challenging time for everyone involved, including your nanny. It’s essential to handle the situation with care and consideration to minimize the impact on both your nanny and your children. Here are some steps to help you navigate this delicate situation:

It’s crucial to be open and honest with your nanny about the divorce. This allows them to be prepared for any challenges that may arise and ensures that they are aware of the situation. Your nanny may be concerned about job security or changes in their role. Offer reassurance that their job is safe, and be transparent about any possible changes.

Be clear about expectations

Ensure that your relationship with your nanny remains professional. Discuss any changes in work hours, responsibilities or routines with your nanny. Avoid discussing personal matters related to your divorce, and refrain from involving them in any conflict between you and your ex-spouse. This will help them adapt to the new circumstances and continue to provide the best possible care for their children.

Establish a support system

Make sure your nanny is aware of any specific needs your children may have during this time, such as additional emotional support or schedule changes. Provide support for your nanny, as they may also be affected by the changes in your family. Encourage them to speak with you about any concerns they may have.

Update your nanny contract

If necessary, update your nanny’s contract to reflect any changes in hours, responsibilities or other aspects of their job. Your parenting plan should discuss how the nanny’s pay will be divided or handled, so be sure to put new payment information in the contract.